Forget what hurt you in the past, but never forget what it taught you.
However, if it taught you to hold onto grudges, seek revenge, not
forgive or show compassion, to categorize people as good or bad, to
distrust and be guarded with your feelings then you didn’t learn a
thing. God doesn’t bring you lessons to close your heart. He brings you
lessons to open it, by developing compassion, learning to listen,
seeking to understand instead of speculating, practicing empathy and
developing conflict resolution through communication. If he brought you
perfect people, how would you ever learn to spiritually evolve? Always
make gud use of ur head (brain)
Have you ever wondered why all the relationships you get into don’t work
out? Well, wonder no more. The reasons why most of your relationships
don’t work out is because you trust people so much and so fast, you love
with all your heart and you leave all your senses behind, you repeat
the same old mistakes you did in the past, you forgive so much, you love
too much, you open up so much, you have a bad attitude and a lot of
insecurities. That’s why people take advantage of your
kind and caring heart and they play with it like a toy. You need to
work on yourself and learn from your past mistakes so that you don’t
repeat them, you need to give a little love while leaving a room for
disappointments anytime, you need to raise your standards a bit, you
need to stop giving in your whole heart, and you need to stop trusting
people so much and so fast. Take your time in knowing someone, their
intentions towards you and their goals in the relationship. Let
everything go slowly in stages. Don’t rush things. If someone really
loves you their actions will tell with time.....
He may not be perfect, but he's exactly what she
needs. He might not
be the best looking guy around, but his personality
makes him a
handsome person. He might not make a lot of
money, but he spoils
her with attention, affection, honesty, loyalty, and
love. He might not
always know the right things to say or do, but he
knows how to show
he cares. He might make mistakes at times, but he
always tries to
make up for them. He might have the biggest
muscles or the nicest
body, but he has a really strong heart. He might
mean to her at times,
but he's just being real with her. He might be too
busy for her at
times, but he never forgets to try to make time for
her. He might not
be good at a lot of things, but he always gives her
his best effort. He
might make her mad here and there, but he knows
just how to put a
smile right back on her face. He might make her
feel like shit, but no
other guy loves her more than he does.
QUESTION: do such men stil exist??? YOU ANSWER THAT
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